How To Overcome Sex Anxiety
Studies have shown that performance anxiety is just as common in sex as it is in sports. Here are four types of performance anxieties that can arise during sex (like spectatoring and negative scripts), plus four ways to overcome them.
A "Sex Checklist" Saved My Relationship
One writer shares how a sex checklist brought clarity, consistency, and built-in communication to her relationship—and ultimately saved it.
99 Free (Or Affordable) Self-Care Ideas For Your Wellness Routine
These 99 free and affordable self-care ideas will inspire you to schedule time for yourself, especially on days that feel the most challenging.
Do I Need A Care Routine For My Vulva?
With companies touting special products that promise to cleanse, freshen, and even remove odor, it seems like we should be doing more for our vulvas. Turns out, “a healthy vulva is one that doesn't have a whole lot ‘done’ to it.”
The Importance of Feminist Sex Stores—And How To Shop At One
Feminist sex shops are judgment-free spaces that prioritize inclusion, empowerment, and sex education. Here, we answer a few questions to help navigate your first visit, from how to talk to staff members to if you can touch products.
How To Advocate For Your Own Pleasure During Sex
We’re offering tips on how to learn what brings you pleasure, and then on how to approach that conversation with your partner using honest language, boundaries, and nonverbal cues (if agreed upon).
How I’ve Learned To Love My Vulva
How one woman began to properly identify, invest in, and lovingly affirm a part of her body that she felt ashamed of: her vulva.